Step 1: Explore Self Care
You can't fill from an empty cup
Feelings of stress are a normal part of life and motivate us to move forward however, when stress is too intense or too prolonged it can negatively impact our lives. Many post-secondary students report feelings of stress before big events like exams, class presentations, or times of financial or family worries.
Self-care plays a significant role in keeping oneself physically and mentally healthy. Self-care is different for each person, however, some basic self-care includes things like: eating regularly and nutritiously, having a good sleep routine, positive self-talk/reassurance, exercise, making time for yourself a priority, reward theory (having something to look forward to), meditation/mindfulness practices, relaxation techniques (breathing, muscle tensing/relaxing), yoga, or having support persons easily accessible.
Self-Care Resources |
Student Health and Wellness - Check out lakeheadu.ca/shw-events for regularly scheduled yoga and meditation groups and wellness events on campus
- Check out our Staying Healthy page for more information, education, and self-help ideas.
Wellness on Demand The following list of resources may also be helpful to you in developing your own self-care strategies or for using self-help resources to address a specific issue: - Student Mental Health Network- developed by students, for students. Supports post-secondary student mental health and well-being through education and access to centrally-located resources.
- Helpguide- a free on-line resource highlighting what you need to know to help yourself.
- From Surviving to Thriving -inspired by research on resilience and improved through feedback received by researchers, educators, students, and mental health professionals. Students may face significant stressors on their own for the first time. This resource can help them plan ahead so they are better able to cope with the personal and academic stressors they may encounter.
- Anxietycanada.com- an online resource providing self-help information for managing anxiety.
- The Anti-depressant Skills workbook- This self-care guide gives an overview of depression, explains how it can be effectively managed according to the best available research, and gives a step-by-step guide to changing patterns that trigger depression.
- Bounceback videos with helpful tips re: stress, anxiety and depression. Available in English, French, Arabic, Farsi, Cantonese, Mandarin and Punjabi
- Be Safe- designed to help you make decisions in a crisis. Allows you to make a safety plan, offers information and options for getting help.
- Apps
- Headspace: Learn to relax with guided meditations and mindfulness techniques
- Aloe Bud: Bring awareness to self-care activities using encouraging push notifications
- ToDon’t: The to-do list app that helps you avoid stuff you really shouldn’t be doing
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Step 2: Need to talk?
Everyone needs a helping hand once in a while.
If you're struggling with difficult feelings and need to talk to someone quickly, including if you're not ready or able to access other types of support, helplines can help by letting you talk through your feelings and experiences without judgement. Some services are staffed by professional counsellors, some by trained listeners and some by peers with lived experience.
Support available to you |
- TalkCampus:
- Global peer support community for students that provides support any time of day, anywhere in the world via the TalkCampus app
- Good 2 Talk Post-Secondary Helpline- 24/7, free, professional and confidential support for anything you want to talk about 1-866-925-5454 or text GOOD2TALKON to 686868
- 7 Cups:
- Chat online with caring listeners, meet people who understand, try self-help
- Wellness Together Canada-provides free online resources, tools, apps and connections to trained volunteers and qualified mental health professionals when needed.
- NEDIC- Canada’s only national toll-free helpline focusing on supporting individuals affected by eating disorders. Offers a toll-free help-line (1-866-NEDIC-20) and chat support
- Hope for Wellness Help Line- 24/7, offers immediate mental health counselling and crisis intervention to all Indigenous people across Canada. Phone and chat counselling available in English and French. Phone counselling also available in Cree, Ojibway and Inuktitut.
- LGBT National Online Peer-Support Chat offers confidential one-on-one peer support for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning people. Volunteer-run.
- Talk4healing is a culturally grounded, fully confidential helpline for Indigenous women available in 14 languages all across Ontario. 1-855-554-HEAL
- LUSU offers many student associations and clubs to support and advocate for students. Check out their website
- Black Youth Helpline Black Youth Helpline serves all youth and specifically responds to the need for a Black youth specific service, positioned and resourced to promote access to professional, culturally appropriate support for youth, families and schools. Call 416-285-9944, Toll-Free 1-833-294-8650. Every day 9 am - 10 pm.
- Naseeha is a helpline for Muslims and non-muslims, call or text 1 (866) 627-3342, Everyday 12pm-12am EST.
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The counselling process occurs when a client and counsellor set aside time to explore difficulties which may include the stressful or emotional feelings of the client. This can enable the client to focus on feelings, experiences or behaviour, with a goal of facilitating positive change. Counselling can be both short-term and long-term, depending on the issue(s) presented and the plan agreed upon between the counsellor and the client. Often times, people find that one session is extremely beneficial in beginning to make changes and work toward goals.
When there is a need for follow up, counsellors work with their client in order to determine the best course of action -- this may include recommending that you continue with using same-day appointments as needed (“one-at-a-time therapy”), developing a treatment plan to work on through on-going therapy or referral to specialized services.
Are you feeling desperate and hopeless, worried you might hurt yourself or someone else, or having suicidal thoughts and alone with no one to talk to? Please get help immediately! Please do one of the following: